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	<title>Comments on: october: notes on scott russell sanders</title>
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	<description>where a mother tries to cultivate creativity and a sense of wonder in her kids—and does a whole lot of wondering herself in the process</description>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
		<link>http://patriciazaballos.com/2009/11/10/october-notes-on-scott-russell-sanders/comment-page-1/#comment-1720</link>
		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 06:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lois, 

Sanders&#039; writing is very moving. I don&#039;t believe he grew up to be an alcoholic himself. If you&#039;ve never read his essay &quot;Under the Influence&quot; you might want to look for it. It&#039;s all about the experience of growing up with an alcoholic parent, and what that can do to you. Sanders writes of those self-critical feelings that you&#039;ve written about. It&#039;s a heartbreaking essay, and beautifully written.

Sander&#039;s book A Private History of Awe is also quite wonderful. It does address Sanders&#039; father&#039;s alcoholism, but it also shows what his father was like when he wasn&#039;t drinking. It&#039;s a lovely portrait of a complicated relationship.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lois, </p>
<p>Sanders&#8217; writing is very moving. I don&#8217;t believe he grew up to be an alcoholic himself. If you&#8217;ve never read his essay &#8220;Under the Influence&#8221; you might want to look for it. It&#8217;s all about the experience of growing up with an alcoholic parent, and what that can do to you. Sanders writes of those self-critical feelings that you&#8217;ve written about. It&#8217;s a heartbreaking essay, and beautifully written.</p>
<p>Sander&#8217;s book A Private History of Awe is also quite wonderful. It does address Sanders&#8217; father&#8217;s alcoholism, but it also shows what his father was like when he wasn&#8217;t drinking. It&#8217;s a lovely portrait of a complicated relationship.</p>
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		<title>By: lois marcum</title>
		<link>http://patriciazaballos.com/2009/11/10/october-notes-on-scott-russell-sanders/comment-page-1/#comment-1715</link>
		<dc:creator>lois marcum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 21:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t help the tears.  Whatever the genetic part of alcoholism is, I wish we could find it.  There are cases where kids grow up under the same circumstances, and yet they don&#039;t all end up alcohollic.  You have started me thinking about my own inner criticism, which never stops, and which I am sure dates back to the idea &quot;Maybe, if I&#039;m good enough, do enough good things, she won&#039;t drink anymore.&quot;   I guess I still have to work on that.  And I&#039;m 77 yers old.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t help the tears.  Whatever the genetic part of alcoholism is, I wish we could find it.  There are cases where kids grow up under the same circumstances, and yet they don&#8217;t all end up alcohollic.  You have started me thinking about my own inner criticism, which never stops, and which I am sure dates back to the idea &#8220;Maybe, if I&#8217;m good enough, do enough good things, she won&#8217;t drink anymore.&#8221;   I guess I still have to work on that.  And I&#8217;m 77 yers old.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott Russell Sanders</title>
		<link>http://patriciazaballos.com/2009/11/10/october-notes-on-scott-russell-sanders/comment-page-1/#comment-1631</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott Russell Sanders</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jan 2010 12:22:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Patricia Zaballos:

I appreciate your generous words about my work, and your careful selection of passages to illustrate the qualities you admire.  As a writer yourself, you realize that one spins out these lines in solitude, often amidst confusion and pain, and therefore it is heartening to learn that one&#039;s solitary labors have given pleasure or illumination to others.  

Scott Russell Sanders</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Patricia Zaballos:</p>
<p>I appreciate your generous words about my work, and your careful selection of passages to illustrate the qualities you admire.  As a writer yourself, you realize that one spins out these lines in solitude, often amidst confusion and pain, and therefore it is heartening to learn that one&#8217;s solitary labors have given pleasure or illumination to others.  </p>
<p>Scott Russell Sanders</p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 06:05:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks so much for stopping by and leaving a comment, wesleyjeanne. And thanks for linking me on your blog too!

I&#039;m glad to hear that there are other Sanders fans out there. You just never know, until you start a blog, how many like-minded people you can find in the world. Scott Russell Sanders fans unite!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much for stopping by and leaving a comment, wesleyjeanne. And thanks for linking me on your blog too!</p>
<p>I&#8217;m glad to hear that there are other Sanders fans out there. You just never know, until you start a blog, how many like-minded people you can find in the world. Scott Russell Sanders fans unite!</p>
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		<title>By: wesleyjeanne</title>
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		<dc:creator>wesleyjeanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:35:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love Scott Russell Sanders. Love! The quotes you chose are perfect.

I find that so many folks (or at least folks I talk to, which might say something) don&#039;t know him or have never heard of him. But I think is writing is so very beautiful and his observations right on.

Thank you for sharing!

(and I like your essayist posts!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love Scott Russell Sanders. Love! The quotes you chose are perfect.</p>
<p>I find that so many folks (or at least folks I talk to, which might say something) don&#8217;t know him or have never heard of him. But I think is writing is so very beautiful and his observations right on.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing!</p>
<p>(and I like your essayist posts!)</p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:55:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You crack me up, Susan: &quot;It&#039;s not like they are killing themselves with drink.&quot;

Thanks for taking the time to &lt;i&gt;read&lt;/i&gt; the passages!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You crack me up, Susan: &#8220;It&#8217;s not like they are killing themselves with drink.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to <i>read</i> the passages!</p>
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		<title>By: susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 17:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just love    “Mother watched him go with arms crossed over her chest, her face closed like the lid on a box of snakes.”  I have tried to look that way, I think, at the kids when they are picking fights.  Now maybe I&#039;ll cut out the boxed snake look.  It is not like they are killing themselves with drink.  You always make me want to run out and get the books you review.  Thanks for taking the time to share these passages with us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just love    “Mother watched him go with arms crossed over her chest, her face closed like the lid on a box of snakes.”  I have tried to look that way, I think, at the kids when they are picking fights.  Now maybe I&#8217;ll cut out the boxed snake look.  It is not like they are killing themselves with drink.  You always make me want to run out and get the books you review.  Thanks for taking the time to share these passages with us.</p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 14:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re so kind, Kristin. I&#039;ll bet I would have enjoyed being an English professor if I&#039;d started earlier and gotten the advanced degrees. Somehow I don&#039;t think my &quot;homeschooled MFA&quot; is going to get me any teaching gigs...but I do love facilitating workshops for these homeschooling kiddos. Talking writing with them is a good fix for me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re so kind, Kristin. I&#8217;ll bet I would have enjoyed being an English professor if I&#8217;d started earlier and gotten the advanced degrees. Somehow I don&#8217;t think my &#8220;homeschooled MFA&#8221; is going to get me any teaching gigs&#8230;but I do love facilitating workshops for these homeschooling kiddos. Talking writing with them is a good fix for me.</p>
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		<title>By: Kristin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 04:26:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Tricia,

I enjoyed your review of Sanders.  The selections you picked were poignant and so were your comments.  You truly have an eye for good language and gift for discussing it.  Have you considered becoming a professor of English Literature or Creative Writing?  You&#039;d be great.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Tricia,</p>
<p>I enjoyed your review of Sanders.  The selections you picked were poignant and so were your comments.  You truly have an eye for good language and gift for discussing it.  Have you considered becoming a professor of English Literature or Creative Writing?  You&#8217;d be great.</p>
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		<title>By: patricia</title>
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		<dc:creator>patricia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for taking the time to leave the kind words, Katie. It&#039;s encouraging to know that others share my interests in these essayists--and that maybe I&#039;m not boring &lt;i&gt;everyone&lt;/i&gt; silly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for taking the time to leave the kind words, Katie. It&#8217;s encouraging to know that others share my interests in these essayists&#8211;and that maybe I&#8217;m not boring <i>everyone</i> silly.</p>
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